崇德幼兒園小乖熊兒童之家早教中心早教育兒分享—————一刻不能等的“急脾氣”，拿他怎么辦？

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<h3><br></h3><h3> “新型冠狀病毒”來勢洶洶，抗擊疫情形勢嚴(yán)峻，在此期間，崇德幼兒園，充分利用互聯(lián)網(wǎng)優(yōu)勢，，每天向廣大家長和幼兒提供育兒知識、親子互動課程，跟著老師一起動起來、學(xué)起來，家長朋友們要積極行動起來喲，每天堅持有效陪伴，陪孩子們一起度過一個有意義而難忘的假期！</h3> <section style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; line-height: 28.4444px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; display: inline-block; vertical-align: top; width: 472.222px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-size: 15px; line-height: 1.8; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.8; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">      我家孩子剛滿3歲，是個“急性子”。碰到喜歡的動畫片不讓看的時候，就氣得不得了。一些小事情，比如吃東西，拿玩具，必須馬上去做，一刻也不能等……很頭痛??！</span></h3><div><span style="max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.8; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></span></div></section></section></section></section></section></section></section> <section style="max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; line-height: 28.4444px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" style="margin-top: 30px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" style="padding: 10px; max-width: 100%; display: inline-block; width: 555.556px; vertical-align: top; border: 1px solid rgb(24, 54, 118); border-radius: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" style="margin-top: -30px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 24px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><h1 style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; background-color: rgb(254, 255, 255); overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><b style=""><i style=""><font color="#ed2308">專家解答</font></i></b></span></span></h1></section></section></section><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; line-height: 1.8; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="color: rgb(108, 139, 156); max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><section style="max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.8; letter-spacing: 2px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">      有些孩子從出生起對事情的情緒反應(yīng)就比較強(qiáng)烈，高興時大笑，不高興也會大哭或大發(fā)脾氣。有些孩子對事情的情緒反應(yīng)相對平緩，給人乖巧可人的印象。你家的寶寶大概就屬于那種反應(yīng)強(qiáng)烈的了。</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"> </h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">       孩子反應(yīng)強(qiáng)烈，往往訓(xùn)練得父母行動迅速。孩子摔了或有什么事情想做做不成，就會立即大哭，父母以為孩子受了多大的傷害，往往趕緊跑過來幫他解決難題。</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"> </h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">      父母的迅速行動，又強(qiáng)化了孩子的反應(yīng)。如果你對孩子有求必應(yīng)，孩子也必會對你“有需必求”。這種反復(fù)強(qiáng)化，就把孩子培養(yǎng)成了個“急脾氣”。</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"> </h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">       孩子不知道自己的要求有任何的不合理，在他的經(jīng)驗中，哭鬧得越兇，問題解決得越快。就算你解釋過冰棍現(xiàn)在不能吃，他的理解和他的經(jīng)驗之間，也還有距離。</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"> </h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">要讓孩子懂得這些，養(yǎng)育者必須有所改變：</strong></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"> </h3></section></section></section><section class="" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; text-align: center; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; display: inline-block; vertical-align: top; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="color: rgb(108, 139, 156); max-width: 100%; display: inline-block; vertical-align: bottom; border-right: 0.35em solid rgb(146, 54, 29); border-top: 0.65em solid rgb(146, 54, 29); overflow-wrap: break-word !important; border-bottom: 0.65em solid transparent !important; border-left: 0.35em solid transparent !important;"></section><section class="" style="padding-right: 5px; padding-left: 5px; max-width: 100%; display: inline-block; vertical-align: top; background-color: rgb(241, 197, 129); overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><b style=""><i style=""><font color="#ed2308">讓孩子學(xué)會等待</font></i></b></h3></section></section></section></section><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.8; letter-spacing: 2px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">      孩子想要玩具了，但姥姥正在晾衣服，姥姥不必停下手里的活兒，完全可以讓孩子先等一等：“來，幫忙把盆里的衣服遞給姥姥，姥姥晾得就快了，一會兒就能幫你去拿玩具了?！焙⒆右菐土嗣?，可別忘了謝謝他，同時還要夸夸他的耐心。</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3></section></section></section><section class="" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; text-align: center; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; display: inline-block; vertical-align: top; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="color: rgb(108, 139, 156); max-width: 100%; display: inline-block; vertical-align: bottom; border-right: 0.35em solid rgb(146, 54, 29); border-top: 0.65em solid rgb(146, 54, 29); overflow-wrap: break-word !important; border-bottom: 0.65em solid transparent !important; border-left: 0.35em solid transparent !important;"></section><section class="" style="padding-right: 5px; padding-left: 5px; max-width: 100%; display: inline-block; vertical-align: top; background-color: rgb(241, 197, 129); overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font color="#ed2308"><b style=""><i>做孩子的榜樣</i></b></font></h3></section></section></section></section><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.8; letter-spacing: 2px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">      和孩子一起做一些需要慢慢感受變化的事情，給孩子一個耐心的榜樣：“你看我們把這些干豆子放在小盤子里，加上些水，蓋上蓋子，明天再來看看會有什么變化?！焙秃⒆右黄鸶惺堋岸棺悠ぷ儼櫫恕棺幼兇罅恕棺影l(fā)芽了”的過程。在這個過程中，你要反復(fù)對孩子強(qiáng)調(diào)什么是“耐心”，他聽不懂也沒關(guān)系。</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"> </h3></section></section></section><section class="" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; text-align: center; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; display: inline-block; vertical-align: top; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="color: rgb(108, 139, 156); max-width: 100%; display: inline-block; vertical-align: bottom; border-right: 0.35em solid rgb(146, 54, 29); border-top: 0.65em solid rgb(146, 54, 29); overflow-wrap: break-word !important; border-bottom: 0.65em solid transparent !important; border-left: 0.35em solid transparent !important;"></section><section class="" style="padding-right: 5px; padding-left: 5px; max-width: 100%; display: inline-block; vertical-align: top; background-color: rgb(241, 197, 129); overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font color="#ed2308"><b style=""><i>允許孩子哭</i></b></font></h3></section></section></section></section><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.8; letter-spacing: 2px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.8; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">     相信眼淚可以教給孩子許多東西。當(dāng)孩子的要求不合理的時候，沒有必要以妥協(xié)來止住孩子的哭鬧。如果孩子愿意讓你抱，可以抱起他，但要認(rèn)真地告訴他：“我知道不讓你再看動畫片你很生氣。但我們說過的，只看一集?，F(xiàn)在你不開心就哭一會兒吧。”</span><br style="max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"> </h3></section></section></section><section class="" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; text-align: center; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; display: inline-block; vertical-align: top; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="color: rgb(108, 139, 156); max-width: 100%; display: inline-block; vertical-align: bottom; border-right: 0.35em solid rgb(146, 54, 29); border-top: 0.65em solid rgb(146, 54, 29); overflow-wrap: break-word !important; border-bottom: 0.65em solid transparent !important; border-left: 0.35em solid transparent !important;"></section><section class="" style="padding-right: 5px; padding-left: 5px; max-width: 100%; display: inline-block; vertical-align: top; background-color: rgb(241, 197, 129); overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font color="#ed2308"><b><i>離開沖突現(xiàn)場</i></b></font></h3></section></section></section></section><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.8; letter-spacing: 2px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">      趁現(xiàn)在你還抱得動孩子，果斷地把孩子抱離沖突現(xiàn)場，輕撫孩子的后背，幫他安靜下來。整個過程中，也許你并不需要說什么，孩子會從你的行動中感受到你的決心和你的愛。</h3></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><p style="max-width: 100%; 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