<h3>01</h3><h3><br></h3><h3>很多女作家或者女名人在寫書、做訪談節(jié)目的時候，都喜歡倡導一個主題：“女人一定要優(yōu)雅”。
記得看過一個訪談，一位搞培訓的女企業(yè)家站在臺上侃侃而談，介紹讓女性看起來得更優(yōu)雅的各種操作方法，具體到站立行走臥的各種體態(tài)姿勢。
等她說完之后，旁邊的男嘉賓忍不住問了一句：女性優(yōu)雅之后要做什么呢？
那位女嘉賓突然愣住了，不知該如何回答。
其實，這也是我想問的，女人費勁心思和精力優(yōu)雅以后要怎樣？
我不否認優(yōu)雅是個褒義詞。優(yōu)雅的人給人以美的享受。女人追求優(yōu)雅不失為追求一種認真精致的生活態(tài)度。
但是，為何社會輿論要花如此大的精力來鼓動女人去優(yōu)雅？
既然優(yōu)雅是個褒義詞，為何從來沒有一本書被命名為：如何做一個優(yōu)雅的男人？
可不可以認為，這個社會認為優(yōu)雅只是女性的責任？或者說取悅別人，帶給別人美的感受是女人一個非常重要的作用。這個作用或者意義大過女性的個人感受，大過她們對夢想的追求。
從這個角度看，對優(yōu)雅的大力鼓吹其實和舊社會強制要求女人裹小腳沒有什么本質區(qū)別。都是要女性犧牲個人的快樂來取悅別人，帶給別人美的享受。
只是這種歧視被包裝了現(xiàn)代化的外衣，隱藏得更深罷了。
東方社會對女性的褒義詞是優(yōu)雅、乖巧、安靜。做一個優(yōu)雅、乖巧、安靜的女性，意味著什么？意為著你要放棄你的思想，不要有主見，不能追求夢想，你只要安靜的待著順從周圍的人，并且保持優(yōu)雅的體態(tài)，像一幅畫一樣能讓周圍的人看到你覺得很愉悅就可以了。
至于你的夢想，你的追求？別開玩笑了，Who cares?這就是東方社會對完美女性的定義。
什么時候,哪怕有一本書能命名為：“如何做一個優(yōu)雅的人”，而不是“如何做一個優(yōu)雅的女人”，也許就說明女性地位有了新的改善。<br></h3><h3><br></h3><h3>02</h3><h3><br></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; word-wrap: break-word !important;">有</span></span><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; word-wrap: break-word !important;">些言論簡直是對女子的桎梏。</span><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">像什么“每天沒有半小時梳洗就不能出門”、“要像保養(yǎng)你的臉一樣去保養(yǎng)你的手”。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; word-wrap: break-word !important;">我常想，如果女人把這些做頭、做臉、做手、做指甲、搭配衣服的精力都用在工作和學習上。或許情況就完全相反了，女人將不再是被要求者，而是翹著二郎腿慢條斯理地要求男人：身為一個男人，襯衫一定要白！皮鞋一定要亮</span>!<span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; word-wrap: break-word !important;">舉手投足都要有紳士風范</span>……!<br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></strong></span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></strong></span> </h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; word-wrap: break-word !important;">是的，只有足夠強大的，</span></strong><strong style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></strong><strong style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; word-wrap: break-word !important;">才有資本制定規(guī)則；而足夠美的，只能被淪為觀賞者。如果，二者選其一，我當然選前者。</span></strong><strong style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></strong></span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; word-wrap: break-word !important;">我更愿意做規(guī)則的制定者，更愿意去做觀賞者，而不是被觀賞被把玩的那一個。</span></strong><strong style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></strong></span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">本文絕不是宣揚女權主義。要求女人都像男人一樣不修邊幅，沖鋒陷陣。只是，若你追求美和優(yōu)雅，能讓你感受到身為女人的享受和愉悅，那你大可花些心思；怕就怕，追求美貌只是為了取悅男人，迎合社會的要求，那就真是迷失自我，得不償失了。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span> </h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; word-wrap: break-word !important;">花那么心思時間和精力，只是為了悅別人的目，還要讓人品頭論足，這不是一件很不劃算的事情嗎？</span><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></span> </h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; word-wrap: break-word !important;">要知道，這個社會很殘酷，真正能讓你立于世的從來不是外貌。外貌最多是一個敲門磚。但是媒體出于商業(yè)目的，或者其他不可告人目的的妖魔化宣傳，卻讓很多女性大大高估了外表的作用。</span><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; word-wrap: break-word !important;">網(wǎng)絡上什么“優(yōu)雅是女人的使命”，“美是女人一生的職責”，“體重過百沒前途”。這樣的文章簡直不要太多。那些年輕的姑娘，很容易就跟著這樣的風跑偏了。</span></span></h3> <p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; word-wrap: break-word !important;">我身邊很多女大學生，課余時間討論最多不是學業(yè)、兼職也不是國家形式，而是什么牌子的面膜最好用，那種形狀的眉毛紋起來最漂亮。一個月</span>1500<span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; word-wrap: break-word !important;">塊的生活費，還要省出</span>500<span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; word-wrap: break-word !important;">塊辦一張美容卡。在人生精力最充沛、大腦記憶力最好的時候，這些女孩子想的不是如何學習知識技能充實自己，而是怎么變著花樣地折騰自己那張臉。</span><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; word-wrap: break-word !important;">想想自己讀大學的時候，每天</span>6<span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; word-wrap: break-word !important;">點就起來背單詞，一有時間就兼職、考證，雖然直到現(xiàn)在我也沒有搞清楚哪個牌子的面膜最好用，但是年輕時積累的知識，培養(yǎng)的學習習慣，卻讓我有了一份體面的工作，并且可以隨意購買自己喜歡的面膜。</span></span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></span></span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; word-wrap: break-word !important;">03</span></span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></span></span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;">前兩天跟領導參加了一個本行業(yè)的全國科研會議，上臺做報告的六個精英全是男士。他們清一色的短發(fā)、襯衣、西褲，沒有過多的外表修飾，但他們站上臺做報告的那份自信和權威，卻讓他們看起來魅力四射！</span><br></span></span></h3> <p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">各個行業(yè)，即使像是美容美發(fā)這樣的領域，女性做到佼佼者的也很少。我想，這其中很大一個原因就是：<strong style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;">女性把太多的時間都耗費在了對外表的精心修飾上</strong>。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">扎克伯格每天都穿同樣的衣服：一件印有Facebook圖案的灰色T恤，一條牛仔褲。他說：我不會把時間浪費在選擇穿啥衣服這種愚蠢的問題上！</span></strong></h3> <p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">有幾個女人能做到這份灑脫和明智呢？須知，女人光摸個臉就得水、乳、霜、隔離、防曬好幾層。<br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">其實，真正的美從來不在外在，而是靈魂；真正的優(yōu)雅是靈魂的淡定從容。</span></strong></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span> </h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">天地有大美而不言。大音希聲，大象無形。</span></strong></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span> </h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; word-wrap: break-word !important;">紅樓夢里沒有一個字寫林黛玉的眉眼鼻子長得如何美，但是我們都覺得她美，賈寶玉愛她，也不是愛她眉眼鼻子纖細身材；斯嘉麗成為經(jīng)典，也不是因為她那藍色的眼睛各外漂亮，而是她倔強自強的人格魅力。</span><strong style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; word-wrap: break-word !important;">東西方審美標準或有不同，但是真正能流傳千古的一定是一個人的精神和氣質之美。</span><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></strong><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span> </h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">氣質這個詞很玄，常聽人贊一個女人氣質很好。什么是氣質？一個人的美貌或許可以模仿來，她穿的衣服也可以買到同款，她燙的發(fā)型你也可以比著去做一個，甚至她走路的姿勢也可以東施效顰。但是，氣質卻不是可以輕易模仿的。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span> </h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">氣質是你曾經(jīng)讀過的書、走過的路、受過的痛，經(jīng)過時光的打磨，內(nèi)心的發(fā)酵，最后幻化成了舉手投足、眼神流轉間的芳華絕代。</span></strong><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; word-wrap: break-word !important;">每個人有每個人的氣質，<strong style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;">每個人的氣質里都藏著她生命的故事</strong>。</span><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span> </h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">若是氣質低俗，空余美貌，這樣的美人美得乏味，好比一只塑料花，雖有形，卻少了讓人流連忘返</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">的淡雅香氣。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span> </h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">時光流轉，芳華易逝，唯有靈魂和精神才能永恒的。<br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></strong></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">聰明的女人，舍得花精力去保養(yǎng)自己的內(nèi)在，她們明白，<strong style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;">能力和人格魅力才是從容立世的資本，好比花有了根基，才能美得更逍遙恣意！</strong></span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></strong></span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">每個女人都要明白：<strong style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;">你要先強大，才有資本談優(yōu)雅！</strong></span></h3>
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